LOVE is something that we feel towards others and it is very magical since love can be for parents, siblings, relatives, friends and for a special someone. People expresses their love for someone through different ways and in my blog post for this day, I want to express my thoughts and views on love based from my experience. It is not too late to take about love since February is said to be the love month. Love should not only be shown or felt during this month but everyday in our lives. Showing how much you love someone is very meaningful because expressing your love for someone involves a reason behind every action.
I want to start my sharing by reminiscing the things that happened in the past. It is about the memories I've shared with someone that actually made me realize a lot of things in life. Memories that taught me that you really need to experience this kind of situation because it is a part of learning something in the end. Life is full of ups and downs that a person has to deal with everyday and falling in love is no exception to that. No one can just live happily ever after without experiencing some difficulties first and that's kind of the same thing when it comes to loving someone because in the end no one knows what the future holds.
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It was this college that I met someone who made me experience affection, love & happiness which eventually turned into hurt, pain & hatred. Those are the emotions I've felt after the heartbreaking moment but then now that I've actually became happy for myself, I felt fulfillment and hope. I know that this event in my life was an experience for me. It was the first time that I actually fell in love with someone who I actually interact with personally unlike the guy that I've fallen for before that I only get to text or chat with him most of the time.
My experience about love is like for highschool students but in my case since I'm kind of a late bloomer it is somehow memorable. It is a memory in my life that I will never forget because it really taught me a lot of things about love and when it comes to boys. For the past 10 years I've studied in an exclusive school for girls that is why this experience is new to me. I am just fulfilled that at least I got to experience this thing when it comes to love. It will surely be something worth telling in the future. There are times when I think that I should not be feeling this emotion too much since we didn't even become a couple and it seems that I don't have the right to say these things. Eventually in the end when people understand a person in this kind of situation, they will learn to accept what this person felt in the end. They just need to hear her story first before they make judgments.
Here are my tips for those girls who are still trying to get over someone:
1. Heal-Talk to a friend or someone older like your parents so that they can give you some advice in the end. Release all your hatred, anger and tears. It is better to actually let out those emotions instead of keeping it inside. Feeling so broken makes a person cry a lot so it is okay to use many tissue rolls.
2. Erase- Throw away, delete and erase everything that will make you remember all the things about him. That messages you have in your phone... ERASE it! At first it may be hard but you don't want to hurt yourself more, right? So just press that delete button and then it's all gone.
3. Accept- If that person is really meant for you.... he should have not hurt you in the first place. Learn to accept the fact that it is already over and you can't turn back time just to make things right. It is already done and it's time for you to get hold of the fact that everything you had before is already a part of your past. Those moments you've shared together are now memories meant to be kept in your mind and in your heart.
4. Learn- Whatever happened in those beautiful memories should be used to make yourself better. Do not just cry or feel sad for everything that happened. You can actually learn from this event in your life which will actually help you realize that nothing is perfect in this world... even relationships. This is reality and you should learn from it by telling yourself that you will not commit the same mistake again. You will be smarter enough when it comes to love because you know you deserve someone who is worthy enough to accept you no matter what.
H.E.A.L. this word actually has a lot of meaning inside it and this is something that every girl who is moving on will feel in the end. The heartbreak and sleepless nights will be over and then you will wake up one day realizing that everything is now okay.
I've been trough it and I guess I am still but I know that everything will turn out the way God has planned for me. He might have a reason why He did not allow me to end up with that guy because He has someone planned for me. I guess that I should just wait for that person who will eventually come in the right time. God has something already planned for each one of us and He is still busy writing my love story because it might be too complicated :)) but I trust Him so I will just leave it all to Him because He knows that I deserve a guy who will accept me for what I am.
"Never rush into falling in love because love never runs out... Let love be the one to knock at your door besides TRUE LOVE is worth waiting for." -Unknown
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